David Kamau asked:


Alternative lifestyle can be defined as a mode of living or doing something in a way that is not within the accepted norms or values. Adult alternative lifestyle is simply an unusual sexual lifestyle.

Some activities considered adult alternative lifestyles include:

1. BDSM: This stands for ******* and Discipline (B&D), Domination and Submission (D&S), and Sado-Masochism (S&M). As the definition suggests, **** involves bondage, that is restraining or being restrained, domination as well as submission, ****** (taking pleasure in inflicting pain on another person) and ********* (taking pleasure in being subjected to a certain degree of pain).

2. Swinging: This can be defined as a form of recreational social and sexual activity between consenting adults whereby partner swapping is acceptable. Swinging is also referred to as “wife swapping”, but this definition is inaccurate as it narrows down the activity and makes it look like a male domain. “Partner swapping” may be a simpler but more accurate description.

3. Sexual Fetishism: The arousal and/or gratification through some object, or non-genital part of the body. Such object or body part is referred to as the ******. ******** include but are not limited to shoes (boots or high-hills), feet or digits of the foot, hair, underclothes or lingerie, body piercing, clothing (size, garment-type or size), stockings, etc.

4. Polyamory: This is the practice of having more than one intimate relationship at a time, with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved. In polyamory there is no partner swapping, as opposed to swinging where swapping is the norm. Polyamorous relationships are usually serious and long term.

Why do people pursue adult alternative lifestyles and relationships? The answers are as many as the individuals. But one that tends to go across the board is- you guessed it- fun. Another reason is fulfillment of sexual fantasies.

There are many more forms and variations of sexual alternative lifestyles than can fit in this article, as well as sub-groupings of the same. For example, ******* as in the B in **** can be considered as a lifestyle on its own.

It is not uncommon for alternative lifestyles to overlap. For example, at a swinger’s party (an alternative lifestyle), one person may be getting a body part pierced (a fetish), a man may be receiving a ******** while restrained in chains (BDSM) from a woman in leather garments and boots (dress or shoe fetish), while a polyamorous trio (an alternative lifestyle) may be joined by another couple for a sexual activity.

Thinking of exploring your alternative, fantasy or ******? There are dating sites specifically dedicated to adult alternative lifestyle, where people of like interests get to meet.



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john lewis asked:

Swinger lifestyle was a part of the American society, and came into its peak during the Second World War. The major part of the society following this was pilots as it was not possible for them and their wives to accompany them on every posting.

Earlier, swinger advertisements were published in magazines and newspapers, from where people gathered information about this lifestyle.

Slowly and gradually, this lifestyle was being loved by people, and even welcomed with warmth. This lifestyle is nothing more than a strong communication as one should feel free and comfortable to talk about each other’s feeling.

A good communication would land up in good swinging moods.

People enjoying such lifestyle find themselves free from frustration and their lost love. It’s an activity to fulfil sexual desires by receiving and providing pleasure. Henceforth, people who are very possessive for their life partners must not try it out of jealousy. This lifestyle should not be entered unwillingly.

People think this lifestyle gives liberty to open mindedness and freedom of expressing their sexual life. Some think it is the best way to explore sexual life as one do not has to stick to any rules and regulations.

For some persons, this lifestyle adds up to the advantage of bisexuality. People can even find partners of the same *** and go for variation in sexual acts. There are certain clubs and pubs where such activities are being promoted.

It is a natural evolution if people want to swap their life partners, girlfriends and lovers. One may find it worth enjoying seeing his /her partner having *** with the other.

For one’s who really want to have some good time and indulge themselves in such lifestyle can go for them searching online. There are many sites which allow you to chat with these people and you can decide whether to go for it or not.

Now, due to e-browsing one can easily involve himself in such societies without rendering here and there. There are many online sites which are there to help one. Even one can gather a lot more knowledge and engage themselves in such pleasurable experiences.

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